1st Glorious Year of Marriage

First an announcement. I got Married a year back.

Well sorry for the late announcements,but it was necessary not to reveal it.

But it does not mean, we didn't enjoy the year that went. I would like to recap the year for myself, my beautiful wife Nidhi and any other people who would like to learn something about marriage from us.

Our marriage was done in secrecy, meaning not many friends know about it. From both sides. In the process of secrecy i forgot to tell many friends, who now think i am a big jerk and selfish person. Well that's no true. Its just that i don't keep in contact with them and have forgotten them. Its a mistake on my part, which i would like to rectify in the future.

Now there are 2 things to understand. First your wife's life changes like hell when she comes to your house. So if possible call her 4 -5 months earlier and let her live in your house before marriage, so she can have an idea of how your house works. To be honest they cannot adjust to everything, so you have to help her in those cases. Never force her cause she is the one leaving her loved ones since 25+ years for you. So be soothing. Second, your life will also change like hell.Now you have to take care of your parents and your wife. That will be taxing on you, so be responsible and take care every equation of life for this phase.

Also life will be a the best sweet dish you have tasted. Love will be in the air and do go slow to enjoy every moment of it. This is the phase which you will remember for life. Your first year. Over a period of time, everyone gets accustomed to their near/dear ones. But this is the phase which when you will be very near to your dear one. Love her like never before and make her the happiest women on earth. Take care of her, give her everything you got, and give unconditional love. And she will give you everything she's got.

Now for the good parts of the first year. Of course there are many, but i will recollect some of them. First is the daily rides we took. In the first 5 years we seldom went on bike rides. But now daily we go for a half hour ride at night after 10 when the streets are less crowded. Enjoying the cool breeze. We also enjoy her driving, although i do scream a lot on her, but her driving has improved a lot, even better than me. I do recommend the daily rides and i will continue doing this in my second year too. Second is the love she gives me. Always hugging and kissing me on the forehead, it releases all the tension i have, and makes me smile like a baby. What else can you ask for from a wife? Also i can be a baby when i am with her. I got amazed at the way i am becoming a baby in front of her. Its like she has brought out something from my soul, which was locked away and never shown to anybody. Wish i can do this all life in front of her.

There are many other things but i think this ought to be enough for now. Thank you Nidhi Dear for being in my life for so long and tolerating me with my defects. Thanks for being a inspiration for me in my work, and teaching me to excel, and to stabilize me in my life. Thank you for being my soul mate.

Thank you Nidhi for Being in my life.