LOVE IS A GIVE AND TAKE RELATIONSHIP
Love is beautiful, wonderful, happy, etc.. relation. but
for the people in love its a give and take relationship. many
woudl disagree with this notion, i think it is.
I will explain from the perspective of the boy, cause i dont
want to seem as biased. suppose a boy loves a girl, he would like
to give her anything she wants, without her asking him, because he
feels like giving it to her. and he gives, he dosnt care if she
gives him anything in return. he dosnt mind if she dosnt give,
cause he dosnt expect.
Then one day, he asks for something. she disagrees, and the
boy thinks, why is she not giving the thing asked to him. has he
not kept her happy, has he not given her what she wanted, has she
ever asked for anything, he has always given it to her without
her asking for it. then if i ask for something in return, why
cant she give it to him. at first he feels hurt, but his love
keeps him from saying anything. he says to himself 'its ok u dont
ask for anything in love, u always give'. This is expectations, they
always creep in ur relations. They are silent enemies. They do their
work slowly, making u frustrated, angry, towards your partner.
So try expect as much little you can from your partner, and
try to give, rather than take, esle you cannot totally feel the
magic of love.
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