SOLUTIONS

SOLUTIONS

 In my life, when i was confused, i used to htink a lot on the prob facing me. But
i used only to think on the prob, never used to think on the solution, this is wht i
have learned.

 When in confusion or facing/going throug a diff situation, we think a lot on the prob.
Actually we are taught to look at the prob first, mull over it then solve it. this results
in waste of time and energy and thought and peace of mind, over a prob.

 Now a way around this is use some time to understand the prob, and in parallel start
searching for its sol. this does not waste time. wht i do is find the root of prob and
solve it if i can. also i see the severity of the prob (whether we need to tackke it, and
whether the damage it can cause me is seveare or not).

 Finding sol is very challenging and fun task, and we should enjoy doing it. A
serious prob should be taken seriously, but somethimes taking it seriously causes more
hurdles and making it more complicated. so solve the prob but do enjoy when u can.

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www.blogspot.com
www.technorati.com
www.flickr.com
www.wikipedia.org
www.43things.com

these are my fav, check it out.....

KNOW YOUR FEELIGNS Part 1.

I was confused in a part of my life. Depressed, angry,
confused, tyring to figure out wht i had to do in my life ahead.
I lost about 7 years, trying to figure out what it was. Life was
the pits at that time. I used to sulk, dont go out much, feel
depressed a lot, become shy or get angry easily.

Then after these really rough 7 years, i figured out some
thing about myself. I figured out what must be wrong with me. I
saw that i didnt enjoy my life as i should. But enjoying life has
different meanings to different persons. Most of the people i have
asked say, ' live life as i want to live'. So i had to find out
how i wanted to live my life to the fullest.

I thought and got 2 ways through which i can live my life.
First was be be balanced. Second know your feelings.

Love Quote

If i know what love is,

it is because of you.

Give and take

LOVE IS A GIVE AND TAKE RELATIONSHIP

 Love is beautiful, wonderful, happy, etc.. relation. but
for the people in love its a give and take relationship. many
woudl disagree with this notion, i think it is.
 
 I will explain from the perspective of the boy, cause i dont
want to seem as biased. suppose a boy loves a girl, he would like
to give her anything she wants, without her asking him, because he
feels like giving it to her. and he gives, he dosnt care if she
gives him anything in return. he dosnt mind if she dosnt give,
cause he dosnt expect.

 Then one day, he asks for something. she disagrees, and the
boy thinks, why is she not giving the thing asked to him. has he
not kept her happy, has he not given her what she wanted, has she
ever asked for anything, he has always given it to her without
her asking for it. then if i ask for something in return, why
cant she give it to him. at first he feels hurt, but his love
keeps him from saying anything. he says to himself 'its ok u dont
ask for anything in love, u always give'. This is expectations, they
always creep in ur relations. They are silent enemies. They do their
work slowly, making u frustrated, angry, towards your partner.

 So try expect as much little you can from your partner, and
try to give, rather than take, esle you cannot totally feel the
magic of love.

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