Things to do for 2010

We're just about done 2009. On January, 1, 2010, you get a fresh 365 days. A new chance. To create the single best year of your life to date. Most will waste this opportunity and make the new year a repeat of the one just past. Sad. But true. But a few will wake up to the possibility and do 7 things that will ensure 2010 is the most unforgettable twelve months they have experienced yet. Want to be one of the fortunate few? Here's what to do:

Step #1: Evaluate 2009. Do a written story recording what went well this past year and, even more importantly, what areas you could improve on. Also list all your wins and as many high points as you can recall. Get a clear picture of how you showed up.

Step #2: Set Your Theme. Come up with a theme for 2010. It may be "The Year of Financial Freedom" or "The Year of Work Excellence" or "The Year of Fearlessness". But get a theme into a document you can start reviewing every week.

Step #3: Create a Mission. The next step is to develop a one paragraph mission statement and put it into this document. Clarity precedes mastery so the more clear your ultimate mountaintop for 2010 is, the greater your focus will be. And the most positive results you'll see.

Step #4: List Your Big 5. OK, now ask yourself this powerful self-coaching question: "What 5 things need to happen between now and December 31, 2010 for this to have been the single most successful year of my life to date?" Write down those five goals as simply and clearly as possible into this document.

Step #5: Sequence Your Big 5. Now break your Big 5 down into quarterly goals. Set 5 core goals for the first/second/third and fourth quarters of 2010 to ensure you nail your Big 5. Review these every week. Reflect on them everyday if you really want to win. Make these strategic objectives the sole focus of your life.

Step #6: Refocus Every Morning. Life's job is to distract you. Your job is to stay staggeringly focused on what's most important. Take 15 minutes during your morning resetting period to reflect on your goals, to envision your best moves and to track out a day that's productive, passionate and fun.

Step #7: Get Devoted to Learning. The #1 skill of super successful people is that they are relentless learners. While others are wasting time on low-value websites or watching mindless reality tv shows, they are listening to audio programs, studying books on leadership and success and basically creating a rich, beautiful and meaningful life. As you journey through each day of 2010, make the time to fuel your brain with ideas on excellence and creating your absolute best. Nothing's more important than that. And please remember that all it takes is a single idea to transform the way you lead and how you live.

Looong Time

Its been a long time since i have written everything, but I have become so much pratical that i cannot write anything philosophical. Well anyway. Looking forward to change that and become the old slim trim vishwas again who used to be philosophical. :)

OXFORD Trip



Hey all , i am travelling to oxford for 1 month, from monday i will start the 3week here. Dont know how 2 weeks have gone past. First week was very slow, but time seems to be catching up now and moving faster. So let me go to my experience here in oxfor , or in fact my first time out of India.

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नमस्ते

बधू मजा माँ

Happy Friendship Day

First of all let me wish all of you

Happy Friendship Day

A special day to be shared with all special persons in your life.

I on my part enjoyed it alone. Not with anyone, but still with everyone.
Maybe this is just how i am.

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Tips for Project management

1. Keep your approach Friendly
2. Tell your colleagues, 'extend of your authority'
3. Be people-oriented
4. Have one-to-one meetings
5. Don't micro manage
6. Don't just check progress, be part of it.
7. Learn to mange people, feel them.
8. Bind the team together
9. Be committed and have a good reputation
10. Be charismatic.
11. You can learn leadership , so learn it, take experience from you seniors, talk a lot on
improving
12. Be flexible in your approach.
13. Support your team when they are right, don't set unrealistic tasks, motivate them.
14. Match assignments with skill sets
15. If you are not technical, don't let members confuse you with technical aspects. Tell them to
simplify it.
16. Be creative, have a brainstorming sessions.
17. Build trust with team.
18. Say thanks, appreciate.
19. Provide good and fair challenges to members.
20. Be a good and clear communicator.

Lonely Valentine

Valentine's day is a very special day, especially for those in Love. The day when you can express yourserlf freely. Although where i live its a kind of difficult to talk to girls , even wish them. But hey its important to express your love today. Many peopletake the chance on this day. Many people propose to someone they love or like, some people keep mum, while some people
burn inside. Its a day of wishing and celebrating but we as in this world have forgotten to be happy, as we attach happiness with the people or things in our lives.

Four years back i was very lonely on this very day, sad cause i didnt have a girlfriend, sad cause i couldnt say "I Love you" to someone. I was sad cause i attached my feeligns to an unknown person. I was sad cause everyone else was happy. I was sad cause i didnt have someone to tell my feelings, share my feelings. After 4 years , after a good relation , after being so wiser in
many senses, i dont feel anything today. I am not alone as i have dissassociated myself from my reason for happyness. And that is why i am happy. I dont need a reason to be happy. I just remain happy.

When today someone says i dont have anyone to propose or share, i tell them ' Wait, cause time will come, be Patient'. They feel lonely and sad as they dont have anyone to share, but they do have that feeling of love inside them, and that is what is important. Having the feeling of love, of undying care, of understanding is the only thing needed in one's heart. If you have these things, you are not alone, but its just that you dont have anyone to share it with.

So on this special day, love someone, and that someone can by yourself, gf, bf , parents, and most important of all your friends. Never forget them , they are the reason you are sane, other wise , you as a social animal wouldnt have gone mad due to silence. Its because of them you laugh and cry. So first wish them.

Have a happy valentine's day.

Love All